by her asking you to stop racing is like you asking her to stop shopping (or whatever she enjoys doing). she's not being fair cuz everything you do, there will be risks involved, no matter what the sport is. in fact, there's more of a chance of getting hurt just driving to work than being on a track, no?
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ot but heres my part:
i say race ALOT less from now on. if ur goal in life isnt to become a race car driver, i think it would be alright to not race as much. that doesnt keep u from modding ur ride and pimpin it out on the roads. heck u can do a few street races ( though more dangerous) but ur gf would feel better about it.
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i say race ALOT less from now on. if ur goal in life isnt to become a race car driver, i think it would be alright to not race as much. that doesnt keep u from modding ur ride and pimpin it out on the roads. heck u can do a few street races ( though more dangerous) but ur gf would feel better about it.
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Crystal Blue 99' SS Lude (born on 7/1/99)~when i got it
CURENT MODS:
-AEM CAI (silver)-DC Sports CC 4-2-1 Headers
-Tanabe Racing Medalion -Apexi V-AFC -autometer A/F gauge -autometer EGT gauge -zex kit w/ plugs running 55 shots -NOS purge kit
HAVE AND INSTALLING SOON:
-UR pulleys set SS
screen name: CBFORMULA
I dunno what's really the problem.
Is it:
A) Girlfriend (of all of one month) becoming super-over-protective
B) Couple of hours discussions
Or
C) Priorities
Personally, I think all three are problems, but that's just me
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First I want to know how you blew your H23
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I think it's kind of quick of her to spring the "priorities" and "what do you care about more" discussions so early on. That's just plain mean of her!
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Is it:
A) Girlfriend (of all of one month) becoming super-over-protective
B) Couple of hours discussions
Or
C) Priorities
Personally, I think all three are problems, but that's just me
First I want to know how you blew your H23
I think it's kind of quick of her to spring the "priorities" and "what do you care about more" discussions so early on. That's just plain mean of her!
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Don't give in to it BlackMagic, as the signs it gives to her are not good, and she will continue to use emotional black mail to get what she wants.(which is what this is!)
Take all precautions you can, and inform her you do so (I think you have!) but you MUST stand your ground and do what you enjoy.
I like the "Would you stop shopping?" approach, and to expect you to stop something you love is out of the question.
Most lads have to be happy once the bloom of a relationship dies down, and if you let her rule your life too much, you won't be!
I have just come out of such a relationship very bitter, and though I tried to please her when we were really passionate, once that died off I realised what I really had and just bounced back more determined to do what I wanted in life(within reason!)
You are the only stable thing in your life! Don't forget that!
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Take all precautions you can, and inform her you do so (I think you have!) but you MUST stand your ground and do what you enjoy.
I like the "Would you stop shopping?" approach, and to expect you to stop something you love is out of the question.
Most lads have to be happy once the bloom of a relationship dies down, and if you let her rule your life too much, you won't be!
I have just come out of such a relationship very bitter, and though I tried to please her when we were really passionate, once that died off I realised what I really had and just bounced back more determined to do what I wanted in life(within reason!)
You are the only stable thing in your life! Don't forget that!
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