main relay - most common symptom is that you can start the car when it is cold but if you've driven for a while, stop the car briefly and try to restart (e.g., stopping for gas), it won't start again for a few minutes. THen miraculously it will start again. Has to do with the solder in the relay. Over time they crack and as it gets hot it will actually lose it's connection with the board. Needs to be resoldered or replaced.
not sure about ignition coil - trouble starting all the time