I didn't read the link that Cookout posted, but to answer your questions...
You can get the feelers gauge from Pepboys. It might be helpful if you get the angled ones, but I'm not sure where to get them from. I never looked for them because the regular straight ones does their job.
Another special tool that you need is the "valve adjustment" tool from Honda. It's a deep (i think it's 12 or 14mm) socket for the adjustment nut, at the top end, it's a hex, so you can use a 17mm wrench to hold while you stick a screwdriver through and adjust the valves. You might be able to use a regular deep socket and use a vice grip our something to hold it. I find it impossible to adjust the valves on a VTEC without a tool like this. The adjustment nut is deep in there...
Have your valve cover gasket ever been replaced? You can reuse your old one if it's not too old. I'm constantly taking my valve cover off and I reuse my old one (about 20k miles on it) and no leaks at all. For the valve cover grommet, you don't need new ones. And yeah, that price is correct.
If you're going to order the gasket anyways, goto
www.hondaautomotiveparts.com. It's much easier to order from there, and they're a few cents cheaper.