I would suggest fuel. If you are not going some sort of FI igintion upgrades are almost pointless IMO.
DO NOT get the Crank pulley. As mentioned you WILL loose the facotry harmonic balancer. Yes this is the biggest power gainer of the pulley but it depends on what you want: Engine Life vs. Engine Power.
You will only get 3-4 hp if you lucky from the AEM pulley set, so if your not satisfied with that don't bother.
I have never heard a big problem of the AEM's ripping belts before, but it did happen to me so maybe it is a problem..
And another thing if you have a pretty powerful aftermarket system you are going to see some serious drain. I could sit there idling before and have the tunes going for maybe 5 mins before the lights would REALLY start discoballing.
BTW: I am *currently running* an AEM P/S pulley and an Unorthodox Alternator pulley with a custom belt as I removed A/C. If you have any questions about the pulleys ask me, I have play around with them quite a bit.
* Denotes: This was the setup I was running before blowing my engine, and the setup I will be running after the rebuild!