Okay seriously, you make alot of threads when you could have just started this question in the other one.
I for sure know there are numerious threads on this problem because its a pretty common problem. You need to search.
Actually, with all the questions you've had and issues, I would suggest taking the car to a good independant mechanic.
Oh btw, just because I know you will not search correctly, the main relay is located near your steering column.
here is a thread that even has pictures. One of top 10 threads that comes up when you just search "main relay"
where is the main relay