I'm sorry but I'm totally fed up with wiring my foglight switch to make it work properly in conjunction with my actual foglights.

I've tried so many combinations of wires that I'm giving up on guessing and leaving it to the PROS. I've gotten another cheap Radioshack lighted switch to work like how it's supposed to but not this stubborn Ignited LED one.
I want this RESOLVED PROPERLY ASAP.
To the first person who can tell me the EXACT wire color/stripe setup that goes to the EXACT spade prong on the switch and make the switch and foglights work properly how it's supposed to, I will pay $20 by Paypal that day I try it and it works. It must NOT be a guessing solution but the GUARANTEE way for it to work PROPERLY.
To recap:
I have a 92 SI, so with the switch harness behind the tweeter with (6) wires (RED/YEL, RED/BLK, RED, RED/GRN, ORN, BLK) and of course the (5) wires that go to the OEM relay that are (3) RED/YEL, (1) BLUE/RED, and (1) RED/GRN.
I have a new Ignited LED toggle switch with (3) spade prongs (Illumination, +, ground).
I have a NEW OEM relay and have a good 15 Amp fuse for the foglights.
On a side note, I am using a new generic HID heavy duty wire harness with relay and 30 Amp fuse (the one
www.suvlights.com is selling), which the trigger wire is connected to the POWER wire (RED/GRN) of the foglights, like how it's supposed to be. And just to let you know I'm not using the OEM/JDM foglights for our car, but from another car.
And of course, I don't want the buzzing of the relay.
Please help me get this resolved but at the same time I'm sure other luders can benefit from this information also.
Thanks so much for all your help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!