Ok so i bought my car a couple of months ago. when the car was originally bought it had the slight grind going in to fifth but no other issues. after a night of letting my dad borrow the car it would no longer go in to the position for reverse it was just like a wall was in the way. but while driving the car 5th gear was no longer grinding. after a week of driving like this reverse came back and 5th stayed quiet for the most part. I went ahead and changed the fluid to the Honda MTF. no shavings or odd things were in the old fluid. after a while of smooth sailing i noticed ALL of the gears get notchy whether the car was moving, sitting still, or off.

when shifting with any sort of quickness the car will not take 2nd or 3rd. It just goes in to the position but is pushed back out as if there is a spring.

no grinds just that... adding a little oil to the linkage smoothed out the notchiness some but the car still doesnt like 2nd or 3rd. Any help would be greatly appreciated