did you call up Majestic Honda (hondaautimotiveparts.com)?
or here:
http://www.trademotion.com/partlocat...?siteid=213756 ?
the only other fluid I'd use besides OEM is BG Synchroshift and I think ProStreetOnline.com carries BG. that stuff was near legendary for making the garbage gearboxes on 2G eclipses manageable.