Update time. I ended up going ahead with the repair. There's a local welding company that was able to bend the crankshaft back straight. I had the shop tear the engine down to a bare block and while it was out anyway they cleaned out the head, replaced the head gasket, new piston rings, etc. Nearly a complete rebuild and it ran like a dream, at least for a few weeks....
Now for the bad news.

I think the curse of the SS tranny is about to hit. I was out for a drive the other night (had been on the road close to an hour, no high revs as I'm just breaking the engine back in) and the car jerked and shifted HARD into fourth. I was only about two miles away from home so I bit my lip and kept going but there were a few more hard shifts.
This was three days ago and while it's been doing much better after cooling off for the night, I've noticed two things. When the car is hot (30 mins plus of driving) when I shift into reverse sometimes it feels like my emergency break is on and the car doesn't want to move. Throwing it into neutral and back to reverse usually corrects it but sometimes it takes two or three shifts. While I haven't had any more of the jerky shifts, it does seem to have a delayed hard shift every once in a while. None of this happens when the car is cold.
I'd like some advice. Is it possible at all that the trans fluid is old and broken down and this might be causing some of my trouble? I've read the debates on flush vs drain and fill, but most of the threads were old and I'm curious if there's ever been a recent consensus. Is it worth my time changing out the fluid or should I just take it to a transmission shop and not waste that $100. My local transmission shop is going to want to charge $350 just to tear it down and give me an estimate on repair. Any sites like hmotorsonline that sell remanufactured or low mileage Prelude transmissions? Selling is not an option as this car is going to be a birthday present for my wife and I don't trust anyone around here (small town) to do a manual swap.