on the relay there will be male spade connectors sticking up with numbers next to them, the numbers I put are where you'll be connecting the wires too
you'll need female speed connectors to connect the wires to the relay
after you locate and cut the fuel pump wire
there will be 2 sides to it
-pin 87 will go to the wire leading to the fuel pump
-pin 30 will go to the other side of that cut wire
-pin 85 you will connect a wire to it and then ground it to the chassis
-pin 86 you will get 12 volts, from your battery or any other source you want to find and put a toggle switch on it to turn it on and off
this will power the relay and make the fuel pump wire one again, think of it as an on and off switch
this will tell you about relays and what they look like
http://www.bcae1.com/relays.htm